my ex failed to make our mortgage payments and failed to let me know, are there any resources that can help?
Posted on Jun 30, 2008 under mortgage |I am sure there are others who have been in this situation. My peach of an ex failed to make the mortgage payment. We are now almost 3 months behind and I don't have it. Does anyone know of any resources that can help? I am almost to the point of begging and hope that there is a better way.
June 30th, 2008 at 7:32 am
Your lawyer. Do it NOW!
June 30th, 2008 at 7:32 am
Call the mortgage company as well. Sometimes they will work with you to get you caught up. Sometimes there are special programs you can qualify for.
June 30th, 2008 at 7:32 am
You REALLY need to consult an attorney…..
June 30th, 2008 at 7:32 am
First try with your mortgage company. Sometimes they have special hardship programs to re-age your account.
June 30th, 2008 at 7:32 am
Call the mortgage company and explain to them what happened. If you have had no problems with you in the past, they may be able to work out some kind of arrangement. It's worth a shot and surprisingly it works a lot of times. They don't want the hassle of a foreclosure any more than you do. Be forewarned though, if they work out a deal once, they likely won't again, so keep up on the payments.
June 30th, 2008 at 7:32 am
the prev ans + re-fi, quickly
June 30th, 2008 at 7:32 am
You may try a new mortgage.They are usually sympathetic to these situations.I'd also send what you can afford to the current mortgage company and ask if they might put the loan in your name.Good Luck.
June 30th, 2008 at 7:32 am
Whose name is attached to the house? If its yours talk to the mortgage company. Im not a big mortgage expert but maybe a second mortgage would give you enough spare cash if you have enough equity. Try refinancing the mortgage to get a better apr and extra cash.
June 30th, 2008 at 7:32 am
I don't know how well you and your ex get along with each other, but since the both of you may not be living together I don't see a need for the both of you to invest into your home. You may have to make some serious changes if your not able to make your payments on your own like finding another house with a lower mortgage or rent.
You may consider moving back with your relatives for a year or two until you have control of your finances. I know it may not be something you might not consider, but I see alot of households that are like this. I know because I'm a postman.
What ever the situation, I wish you the best.
June 30th, 2008 at 7:32 am
A) try to get a second mortgage and pay the 3 months off. banks are willing to work with you because they don't want the property. or B) the bank should help you out by adding on the 3 months to the end of your loan or possibly giving you a loan, either personal or a 2nd. please don't ruin your credit if you can help it.
sorry your guy is such a vindictive b! good luck and god bless.
June 30th, 2008 at 7:32 am
I suggest you to get a second job as soon as possible even if you have to wash dishes or God Forbid work at Wal-Mart.
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